In the silence of this Christmas Eve I look back gratefully on all the Christmases I have spent with my
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Between Death and the Funeral…
Email to a friend 23rd December 2015: “Well, we’re here in France…..! We’re in the Charente, an hour north of
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On 20th December 2014, my fiancé and I drove to Bath – one of my favourite cities – to choose
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Email sent to a friend from work, 19th December 2010: “Just a very short email to share my wonderful news…
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Email to undertaker, 18th December 2014: You might think this odd but I’d really like 2 or 3 photos of
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17th December 2014: Email from the Minister who was conducting the funeral… “I cannot begin to imagine how you are
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So… Everything was arranged… A joint funeral. A joint burial… Oh, if Dad had known! All those times he had
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Mum died in the early hours of Friday morning, and I don’t remember much of the weekend that followed. After
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So, there really is just one breath between this world and the next, between life and death… I was holding
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Email to my cousin, 11th December 2015: Hello… This day last year was the last day I spent with my
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